When it comes to tying the knot, the thought of a big, bustling wedding might send shivers down your spine—and perhaps not the good kind. For those of us who crave something a bit more intimate, elopements or microweddings are like a breath of fresh Minnesota air. They strip down the day to what truly matters: the love, the commitment, and the personal stories that are the heart of any celebration. But what’s the difference between these two wonderfully cozy options?
Elopement: Just the Two of Us
Imagine this: it’s just you and your love, perhaps standing by a piece of misty Lake Superior shoreline or tucked away in a hidden garden in Minneapolis, exchanging vows that are heard only by each other and maybe a couple of close companions to serve as your witnesses. That’s an elopement. It’s all about simplicity, intimacy, and the freedom to marry exactly how you want. Elopements give you the canvas to paint your day with broad, bold strokes or delicate dabs, focusing solely on each other without the fuss or the fanfare. They allow you to splurge on what really feels important—like a stunning location or dreamy photography to capture the moment—while saving on everything else.
Microwedding: A Tiny Bit Traditional
Now, if you love the idea of a traditional wedding but wish you could turn down the volume just a tad, a microwedding might be just the ticket. Picture it: a small gathering of your nearest and dearest, maybe all cozied up in a quaint cabin or celebrating in a rustic barn turned chic venue. It’s your chance to keep those cherished traditions—walking down the aisle, a lovely dinner, dancing under the stars—with only the closest 50 or so people you love to share it with. This smaller scale can mean less stress and more budget to lavish on luxe details to truly make the day yours. For a lot of KLP couples, this has resulted in some wonderful destination scenarios; the group gets to spend the weekend at a camp or resort or at a boutique hotel in Minneapolis. They can truly relish in the time together while celebrating the step you are taking into the next chapter of your love story.
Choosing Your Perfect Match
Whether a barefoot elopement by the lakeside calls to you, or you can’t imagine not sharing your first dance surrounded by family and friends, your day should reflect your personality. It’s all about creating a space where your love story can shine brightest. Are you dreaming of an adventure just for two, or a small celebration packed with personal touches? Whatever you choose, let it be a reflection of your journey together—because at the end of the day, your wedding should feel like home.
By embracing either an elopement or a microwedding, you’re not just planning a day; you’re crafting an experience. These are weddings that don’t just say, “We’re in love” but rather, “We’re in love, and this is our story.” So, let your heart lead the way, and the rest will fall beautifully into place.
Kayla Lee is a Minnesota-based wedding and elopement photographer (and handcrafter and designer on the side). She serves elegant, authentic, sentimental couples who not only choose their own adventures, but also live them to the fullest!
Planning your own elopement or microwedding? See more about the KLP Elopement + Microwedding Experience!
